Love the Ones You’re With


I have seen this excellent exercise put into practice at work, family reunions, and dinner parties. It never fails to bring a group of people closer, and it brings out the best in anyone. It is especially effective among a group of fractious folk, and it calms roiling waters easily. Time your moment well; never at the beginning of a get-together. Whenever there is a lull would be best. Call everyone to attention and say you want to acknowledge your appreciation for the group.

Do so with simple statements.

Examples:
“What I appreciate about Rich is his humility; he is brilliant but never showy.”

“What I appreciate about Nancy is her kindness and generosity. She helped me out when I was in a bad way. I will always be grateful to her for that.”


Offer a positive appreciation for each person and encourage others to do the same. Talk about a “turnaround”—this can turn stormy skies blue in five minutes flat.




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